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I know. I was just wondering, though, wouldn't the popcorn be really hot. Anyone have first hand expirience.
I don't think u need to trick this one.You should try the popcorn trick
I know. I was just wondering, though, wouldn't the popcorn be really hot. Anyone have first hand expirience.
In this scenario? It's is close to automatic as you can get from the intraweb and not actually meeting her.
Was engaged and throwing down with FD (unless I read that wrong), continued that type of relationship while trolling for new every day , thought she found said , now is wondering if it is of the every day variety, hits up FD(emergency ) to see if he's still willing despite her talking about new guy, etc etc.
She's going to drop him once she upgrades to a dude she thinks she can domesticate.
You read that wrong. We met two months after her engagement ended. She's not a cheater when she's in a rel'ship. She never cheated on her fiancee, and that's not why they broke up.
The idea of it sounds good, but who wants butter and salt on their cawk?
She doesn't believe in God
Figured.
And it's just my opinion but remember, you aren't traveling in fresh snow.
Honestly, the best advice I can give you is to trust your first instinct. Our minds can con us into rationalizing anything.
she told you that, huh?
You should buy her knee-pads and a bib and maybe she would give you dome.
I just don't understand the immediate jump to assume this girl is either a or playing games. I'm not naive enough to assume that she isn't, or that she couldn't be, but based on the few details we've gotten here, it's not crazy to think that Findog may be (perhaps unintentionally) sending mixed messages.
We have a lot of mutual friends and I have a pretty good feel for the type of person that she is.
Of course it isn't. Anything is possible and every situation is different.
I don't like his odds, though.
She sounds like a cucking funt.
Sounds like she already knocked your ego down a peg, and not in a joking fashion...that right there tells you you don't really want to take her seriously.
Basically 2blonde and Chump gave you the best advice.
I will say that you were out of line to get upset when you she didn't call you back...I mean if it's casual that means you call when you want...no expectation. That is the rule.
I would disregard the advice of Cucking and timvp primarily on the basis that you didn't say anything wrong in that reply IMHO...if she wants more from you and she's incabapble of flat out asking for it...well that's a head game.
Yes I know that is the way 75% of women are...and that's also why so many marriages end in divorce. Never get serious with someone you can't communicate with and have to guess....if the chick can't or won't talk openly and is instead uses all the passive agressive methods of communication, either learn to love the head game or tell her to off.
Right now it sounds like you are sinking down into one of those holes where you feel the need to compete or play her game ...and you should already know the only way to win that game is to just walk away. The only way to beat any woman in a head game is to flat out not care...if you care and they want games, you will lose.
I mena face it dude...it is easier for a woman to get laid than a man(who isn't in a rockband). It's just the way it is.
If I were you I'd walk away because you are wanting something from her now and you are unlikely to get it, in fact more than likely you will get exactly the opposite...2blonde nailed it exactly, she's going flake on you.
Personally if I were you...next time she IM's you just say you don't have time to talk and you aren't interested in any conversation that doesn't end up with your in her mouth.
The type that talks to you about giving guys handjobs?
I can already tell you are ed because you are defending her honor and talking about what kind of person she is...while she's talking about guys she's dating and handjobs.
Look...you wouldn't give a about her talking about other guys if she was ing you...so obviously she's not. It's her or your ego slick...when you meet the rigth chick you'll know it...if it's something you have to analyze...then she's not the one and what you really want is steady sex.
the girl is a and you are wondering about classy behavior?
how can you even possibly think of a serious relationship with a ?
Ego...it's not so much that he likes her, it's more that if she's going to be giving onearmed handjobs, where's his? It's the principle of the thing.
Truth is...he's not really that into her, if he was it wouldn't take her talking about giving other guys handjobs to get his attention. It's entirely about his ego...
She knows it too...even the flakiest of women can pick that sort of thing off instantly.
Where you're wrong is your 75% number. I'd say it's nearly 100%. If Findog or anyone else sat around waiting for a chick to fall in their lap that absolutely never uses a head game ...... that is going to be one long wait. And really, it's best to figure out the head games early on and get over that phase rather than to be surprised down the road.
The easy advice to give Findog would be to tell him to stay away but obviously by his reactions to the cir stances, that's not the angle he wants to take. Sure this one seems somewhat complicated and conniving but I disagree that should make him run for the hills. As long as he knows what he's doing and going about it the right way, he can overcome.
P.S.
And all your talk about the supposed HJ tells me you don't realize she very well could be making that up to see if he gets jealous.
You got that right, Whott! It's all about ego, both his and hers! Flaky and/or hard up chicks want to know that they are desired by as many guys as possible. In her case, she "has" to throw out the hand job bait. Sad!!! Even sadder, the guys that bite!
Making up the hand job to get him jealous. If thats the case Findog better snatch this one up quickly. She is a keeper
Look, if it were only about ing, I wouldn't care enough to post a thread in the club section. I had a similar piece on the side around the same time, and she called it off because we both knew it was about ing and ing only, and pretty soon she didn't like that.
The thing about Laura is that when we met, she had just walked away from an engagement and a rel'ship that had lasted 5 years. I had been in a rel'ship for the better part of 2 years. I think I understand what "rebound guy" and "rebound girl" means better now. After being chained up for so long, you really do cherish your new-found freedom. And in our case, we had a lot in common and really hit it off, but didn't quite want to do something so committed so soon. timvp is right that it's the guys that have to do the pursuing, not the other way around, and you can't sit around and wait for the perfect girl to fall into your lap because that's not going to happen. Nobody's perfect, and nobody's going to be beating down your door. I don't think anything she said was idle chatter, she was sending me a message.
Just depends...there are cute and harmless headgames and then there are the seriously ed up ones.
And I disagree that the number is 100%.
There's that PCT of people(usually they are weird) that just click. I know this one couple they are Rocky Horror Picture show freaks...I think they got married during the movie....no head games that I know of.
Granted, she looks like an extra from Rocky Horror when she's not even wearing a costume...but still.
Again depends on the head games...if you can figure out the head game, then it really isn't a head game now is it?And really, it's best to figure out the head games early on and get over that phase rather than to be surprised down the road.
BTW, the PCT of men that actually understand all female headgames is even smaller than the number of women that don't play them ever.
It's almost never the angle you want to take when some chick does something like that...that's hardly unique. That's why they do it.The easy advice to give Findog would be to tell him to stay away but obviously by his reactions to the cir stances, that's not the angle he wants to take.
Sure this one seems somewhat complicated and conniving but I disagree that should make him run for the hills. As long as he knows what he's doing and going about it the right way, he can overcome.
Overcome what? Her giving other guys handjobs and talking to him about it?
I realize she could be making it up...but going straight to the head game stage straight out of the casual stage doesn't sound like a good omen to me...then again, I have a lot of ex girlfriends that hate my guts because I dump them and stop talking to them when I think they are starting to play games...so I very well could be wrong.P.S.
And all your talk about the supposed HJ tells me you don't realize she very well could be making that up to see if he gets jealous.
But that doesn't take into account that Findog is not that into it...it's about the handjob IMHO.
I bet she never talked to you about giving other guys handjobs now did she?
Hence your ego was not damaged...therefore you did not need her to fix what she broke. Because there was nothing broken...
This time you do...
The thing about Laura is that when we met, she had just walked away from an engagement and a rel'ship that had lasted 5 years. I had been in a rel'ship for the better part of 2 years. I think I understand what "rebound guy" and "rebound girl" means better now. After being chained up for so long, you really do cherish your new-found freedom. And in our case, we had a lot in common and really hit it off, but didn't quite want to do something so committed so soon. timvp is right that it's the guys that have to do the pursuing, not the other way around, and you can't sit around and wait for the perfect girl to fall into your lap because that's not going to happen. Nobody's perfect, and nobody's going to be beating down your door. I don't think anything she said was idle chatter, she was sending me a message.
And I bet the handjob recipient was that guy you deemed only a friend at the Christmas Party....
Well message or not...she got under your skin enough to post about it on a message board.
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