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IMHO, men and women don't find the same things attractive, even in men and women.
I've seen women just fawn over these girls like Julia Roberts for instance...I don't know who decided she was the epitome of feminine beauty but I've always had the hunch that women had more to do with it than men.
I've known tons of chicks that think she's just so beautiful and take it as a huge compliment if someone tells them they resemble her...that sort of look.
I do not ing get it. I mean I wouldn't say she's ugly but she's damn sure not drop dead gorgeous like most women think she is and something about her personality says to me...she's just not that hot. She never was.
Now conversely I've seen women that I think are freaking knockouts and had women tell me they are butt ugly or fat...etc.
I'm thinkin, anyone seen the movie ghost ship? That Italian ghost chick that sings the song? That chick is stunningly beautiful...that whole voluptuous look is beautiful but women seem to fawn over that Julia Roberts annoying personality and raggedy ann look for some reason. I've literally had like 5 girlfriends that had a friend that looked like Julia Roberts and just wouldn'tstop talking about how beautiful that friend was and I'm...she's really not all that. A lot of time these girls would blow their friends and Julia Roberts out of the water but all they do is talk about how they wished they looked more like that.
I've also noticed that women tend to fantasize about looking like fashion models. I don't mean swim suit models, I mean fashion models that have that no curve emaciated look...I think they call it pe . More women are attracted to that look than men.
But you get a girl with a little more curves and they may think she's pretty but it's not that same obsession, if they aren't thin you won't see women obsessing over them...
IMHO women with curves look like the way women are supposed to look. I don't want a woman with washboard abs either....
Then again...I've known pleny of friends of mine that thought any thing female was smokin hot so maybe women take cues from these guys with Julia Roberts.
With men...
I mean I can sit there and say that guy seems attractive to me or I bet that dude gets lots of chicks and I can see why...but the idea of a man kissing another man is nasty to me. No macho crap...I just don't see how any man could ever want to do that. Whatever flips your switch though...
Nonetheless...I've seen guys that I thought should get lots of chicks and they get nothing at all...and at the same time I've seen guys that were ing geeks and that I knew from knowing them were low character s bag type guys or cowards, that could pull women like there's no tomorrow.
I don't get it...
I mean Charles Manson pulled so much tail he had celebrities hooking up with him and inviting him to stay in their house just so he would bring his women with him.
Why? How? He was obviously a s bag, and he looked like a scroungy mother er...yet he had a freaking harem.
So same sex or not...I don't think men and women find the same appearance and traits attractive in the opposite sex, much less the same sex.
And I will never understand the female infatuation with Julia Roberts.
Last edited by whottt; 04-15-2009 at 02:12 AM.
gayyyy!
Main Entry:
ho·mo·pho·bia
Pronunciation:
\ˌhō-mə-ˈfō-bē-ə\
Function:
noun
Date:
1969
: irrational fear of, aversion to, or discrimination against sexuality or sexuals
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I am not scared of,
have any aversion to,
or discriminate against gays.
I just do not agree with their choices in life. They choose to live a sexual perversion, in my opinion. That doesn't make me that word.
Last edited by MiamiHeat; 04-15-2009 at 04:01 AM.
So then why can't you say another man is attractive or good looking? Are you blind?
because I honestly don't see it
as I said before, Brad Pitt looks like a normal man to me. what's the big deal? he has eyes, a jaw, and blondish hair. big whoop.
what's the difference? one guy makes women slobber and the other guy you never heard of
Last edited by MiamiHeat; 04-15-2009 at 08:11 AM.
I do ...
I think yer hawt!!Send me your pic.
You are right. You are not phobic.
What I see : a beautiful, gorgeous woman.
she is delicate, soft features. such as her neck and shoulders, soft and regal. very feminine, i love it. soft hair, very beautiful eyes, looks like a sweet, feminine woman. beautiful skin...i could just imagine her being mine...what a fantasy. to protect her, to take her little delicate beautiful frame and make love to her.... physically amazing woman.
What I see : some dude who spends a lot of time in front of a mirror because of his hair, he is metrosexual looking because it's obvious he spends a lot of time grooming himself, he also looks like he is full of himself because it's obvious he tries hard to be a pretty boy. as for his 'looks'...looks like a regular person.
what am i supposed to be looking for? see the difference? i am not programmed to see anything attractive in a man.
if you see a man and you are attracted to him enough that you think "wow he's hot/handsome" then you, my friend, have a little feminine in your personality.
yeah, i don't see it.
Last edited by MiamiHeat; 04-15-2009 at 08:26 AM.
It's not just looks when it comes to what men find attractive. Initially yes, men are attracted to looks but I've met women who find attractive physically but a total turn off once they open their mouths or I get to know them.
Now I agree that I don't find all men that women are gaga over to be good looking but I guess I just have a different eye than you do.
I mean, I have no idea why Beyonce is attracted to Jay-Z because I don't think he is a good looking man at all but not all men see a woman the same way either. Just look at some of the poll threads about which woman is hotter and you can see that.
No, there is no gay in me I just happen to be able to say I think a man is good looking.
There is a difference between finding a man attractive or good looking and being "attracted" to him. You see how you turn to the "feminine" argument because it makes you feel more "masculine"?
What I see : a beautiful, gorgeous woman.
she is delicate, soft features. such as her neck and shoulders, soft and regal. very feminine, i love it. soft hair, very beautiful eyes, looks like a sweet, feminine woman. beautiful skin...i could just imagine her being mine...what a fantasy. to protect her, to take her little delicate beautiful frame and make love to her.... physically amazing woman.
What I see : some dude who spends a lot of time in front of a mirror because of his hair, he is metrosexual looking because it's obvious he spends a lot of time grooming himself, he also looks like he is full of himself because it's obvious he tries hard to be a pretty boy. as for his 'looks'...looks like a regular person.
what am i supposed to be looking for? see the difference? i am not programmed to see anything attractive in a man.
if you see a man and you are attracted to him enough that you think "wow he's hot/handsome" then you, my friend, have a little feminine in your personality.
yeah, i don't see it.
Oh well, I just see things differently is all.
Well, DUH! That's not what we are talking about, Joe.
Maybe not gay. I don't think you want to suck his schlong, but you might have a little feminine in you if you think he is attractive.
Joe, I am not shallow to need irrelevant social reinforcement or self-satisfaction to assert my 'masculinity'... don't dumb me down to that.
The deal here is, that men (straight men like Brad Pitt) emit 'alpha male' type vibes.
So you are telling me, that you look at Brad Pitt, and look into his eyes and say "Yeah, he's good looking" ??? If you find anyone good looking, then you find them attractive. Period. You might not want to make out with him, but you are halfway there. Now you only have to get past the "i'm not gay" thing and then you might as well make out with him since you like the way he looks.
So finding another male 'good looking' is what a woman does, and women are naturally submissive to men (don't let modern feminists fool you). So that would make you a little feminine, like other women.
Last edited by MiamiHeat; 04-15-2009 at 08:50 AM.
No, I'm just comfortable with my sexuality.
I think yer hawt!!
Thanks! You're pretty attractive yourself.
I'm comfortable with mine too. Mine is naturally limited to just women though...
You however, are comfortable with both. That says a little about your inner feelings. Just be honest with yourself. You find him good looking. If you weren't married and could admit it to yourself, you'd be gay for Brad Pitt.
That is some of the stupidest I've ever read.
i guess you just don't know
just admit it joe, you said you are comfortable with your sexuality. You find Brad Pitt good looking. You are halfway there.
Just admit it, if you were single and you had the chance, you'd be gay for Brad Pitt.It's not like you find him ugly. Just admit it.
Joe, you are half gay?
OMG..............
so Joe is more evolutionarily advanced than you are
dumb post of the day nomineeSo finding another male 'good looking' is what a woman does, and women are naturally submissive to men (don't let modern feminists fool you). So that would make you a little feminine, like other women.
Most of the time I'm half-drunk.Joe, you are half gay?
OMG..............
I call bull !!
all women are different, every woman likes and dislikes different things, so if YOU don't agree, that's fine.... but you would be in the minority.I call bull !!
in general, women want to be with a dominant, loving, strong man. ignore modern feminism, it's bull . most women just want to be happy and be able to live their own lives, choose their partner, pick their own path in life/job, be treated equally and respected, etc...
but that doesn't mean they don't want you to open the door for them, protect them, and take charge.
and no, by take charge, i don't mean the male makes all the decisions by himself. it's an equal, loving relationship, in which both have input, but the final decisions when goes down, the male will lead.
some women don't even respect men who don't stand up and take charge.
So you believe the right path for evolution is for all men to have feminine traits in them?
dumb post of the week nominee.
you can't get mad, you used it first.
Don't get mad that you are failing. It's happened to much better posters than you.
the right path of evolution is the opposite of a caveman beating a woman over the head with a club and dragging her back to the cave.
the right path for ultimate evolution is for humans to take on the best traits that humans of either gender possess.
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