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Good thing you didn't take your own advice.or have unrealistic expectations
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I would disagree to a point.
I do think a lot of people are victims of their own unrealistic expectations.
Sometimes, the object of your affections is just not into you and you need to move on...a lot of people have a hard time with that.
Good thing you didn't take your own advice.or have unrealistic expectations
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Dude, I love your posts... And from my own experience I can probably agree 100% on everything you just wrote.
And like others wrote.... there is a big difference betwen being "nice" or "nice/quiet/shy".
BTW...how is life in Ann Arbor?
Well said, JamStone.
Not bad. I only get up there a few days a week, though.
I was asking Manny...but that's ok.
I still say we need a MI GTG
I know who and what you were asking.I was asking Manny...but that's ok.
I still say we need a MI GTG
Manny lives in Michigan too? I recall sam saying he was in the Lansing area, right? I didn't know Manny was around here.
this thread is dumb.
It has nothing to do with you and more to do with the dumb ing es you try to fall in love with.
Stop hanging around immature, don't know what they want out of life, psycho women and maybe you won't think these things.
Find a nice intelligent, caring young woman with a good head on her shoulders and she won't ever be 'into a jerk' .....
you guys are too much.
I suppose it depends what you want.
I think nice guys do not finish last in finding a nice woman to have a long-term relationship with. I only like nice guys. No bad boys for me- ever.
y comedy will get you x amount of pussy, x standing for any number you can handle.
Being a jerk gets you ass, but not from many chicks. Being a nice guy will turn you into your future fat wife's . Being a y comedian at all times gets you ass infinitum.
so who wants to have secx?
DoK..I know where you're at...had a girl I was in love with for a LONG time through HS and after HS...she went after asshole after asshole, and I was the "talk to" guy. We ended up finally getting together, but then found out we weren't right for each other. My wife loved the fact that I was a nice guy. So, when it comes down to it, I think it depends on the girl.
I was waiting for a female to chime in on this discussion.
Women don't like nice guys because they want the strong jackass type. Besides, if they want a nice guy, they will get a gay guy as a friend.
What women really don't like are 26-year-old college graduates who spend all their time ing about how they hate their job at Target.
Your lack of knowledge of women never fails to shine through in your posts. You shouldn't be dishing out advice until you've at least felt a ty.
Got damn!
truth or milfs...i take the milfs
How old are you? In my experience, nice guys (I've always been considered one) do finish last in their teens and early 20s because most young women are ed in the head at that point - they go for the 'excitement' of aresholes who treat them like crap and fail to look beyond looks/money for what really matters. Let's face it, young men are just as ed up and generally ignore the "nice girls" in the same way by only going for the hotties, even if said hotties are stupid, shallow, manipulative, etc.
However, everything changed for me at about age 25 - suddenly women started to see me for who I was and I've had a series of great girlfriends since then. Nice guys can win in the end.
GBS is talking about the tactics used by the Seduction Community:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Seduction_community
The basic idea is that attractive women are used to being deferred to so they find that kind of behaviour unappealing, whereas lightly ripping on attractive women takes them out of their comfort zone and switches on their natural sexual urges. If you are interested, have a read.
Personally, I think it's a pretty sad way to behave, but also makes some sense. It's not a desirable to be a wimp, but manipulating women and treating them like to get you wet is hardly wonderful behaviour either. I say just be who you are, and work out what you really want in a female partner - are looks really that important, or are qualities of character more important? Once I escaped the typical young man trap of placing my 'physical ideal' at the top of the list of important characteristics in a partner, the world of women really opened up for me. In the end, I've found my attraction to women is far more about who they are than what they look like... I think that's called maturing.
Yup, that is true.
When you go to college for 5 and a half years, and borrow 47,000 dollars in college loans and you've been working at a retail store for a year, you're honestly going to tell me that you wouldn't ever complain or about it?
I will about that job whenever the I want. I'll stop ing about it when I get a better job or when I die.
They're a lot like Reno.
Don't want to read all of this thread, but I'm probably the first nice guy to finish first. Although it does help that I'm extremely good looking, have really ripped abs, and have a big . Yep, I have my own chickens at home. My girl loves them. They lay some big eggs! There's my remedy to you.
A bunch of loser dudes that hang out on the internet message board 24/7 giving advice/comments about women! ing hilarious.
Here's the low down:
As a guy, you like hot looking women, right?
Well, guess what? Women like hot looking men...nice or not.
So, my suggestion is get your fat ass in the gym, shave, get nice clothes, smell good, and get yourself a personality. Quit over analyzing this .
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