maybe the lady neighbor wanted wanted you to "settle" it with her
but for a small fee we can make sure the dog "runs away"![]()
Then why is hubby all pissed? He should know his wife is a woofer. Next time I would be right next to my kid kicking the fence with him.
maybe the lady neighbor wanted wanted you to "settle" it with her
but for a small fee we can make sure the dog "runs away"![]()
Ah. Well then yeah. They're just stupid. No harm no foul. This is when you kill them with kindness.
This thread reminds me of the Deer hunter scene in the movie Jarhead.
"Who's ing around now?"
Rob
Who the has "tapes" of anything anymore?
"let me pop that into my VCR...oh do you mind waiting 20 minutes while it rewinds?"
Maybe it's like how people tell other people to roll down their window, they do the circular motion, even though most people have power windows nowadays.
Personally I have a tapeless camera but I could see myself saying I had something on tape, rather than say: I have your son on video in AVCHD format in 1080P stored on a 40GB hard drive.
LOL
Does it not occur to anyone that kicking a fence at barking dogs is what a normal healthy young boy is going to do? You punished your son for being a guy? Put your beer down PMK, get off the internet & go play kickball with your son…When the ball rolls to the fence give the fence a good kick yourself...
I agree, who hasnt kicked a fence at barking dogs. It's like a normal thing to do when your a normal boy. It's in our nature. your geighbors.
Rob
you should have asked him if he had video of you at his house.
and if so, you'd like to see it.
should've told the to off and told her pos husband the same, then go to their fence and kick the living out of it. remember this, their fence is also your fence if it's a divider. yep! kick that til it falls down!
There was more to it than that, at least they claimed, but again that's not the point of the thread. I will say however that they claimed he was grabbing them by their paws through the fence, holding them there, and then kicking them. They also claimed that he broke one of the dogs paws by pulling it down while it was going through the fence.
Now I don't know how true any of that is. This lady is the same person that a brick because three times in five years some grass clippings from my yard got on her driveway. Now she claims all of this and not only that but that they've had to spend over 6K in vet bills and they didn't bother to mention it, but they did about grass clippings, yeah right.
She also claimed that a kid was holding my older son and would sort of push him out into the street while still holding him when a car would drive by, she claimed that she told his grandmother and her response was that she didn't want to get involved. Now I've known this woman (my mother in-law) for almost 15 years, she asks her 40 year old son to call her when she gets home to make sure he's okay after he leaves her house. She probably cares about our children almost as much as we do, so that's something she NEVER would have said.
So at the end of the day who knows, but I'm sure he was at least kicking the fence while the dogs were right there on the other side, and I'm not going to say it's a big deal, but I'd rather raise my son to be kind to animals, it's always the psychos that are out there killing cats and .
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If you want I have a 6 year old and a very tough little 16 month old that will help your kid kick the fance. The 16 month ol dis a terror and she will probably kick the neighbors ass too.
And I do agree that kicking the fence is normal, even if you're a lot older than having just turned five. That's actually what I told my wife right after, before she made any other accusations. and I surmised that the very reason one would do that is because you aren't really kicking the dog, I've actually done it in fact.
So let's say there's a dog incessantly barking at you, you kick the fence to burn off your irritation at the dog, but it's not a big deal because you're kicking the fence, and not the dog, and fences are generally pretty taught so even if you're a grown man, and not a child, you aren't going to get the fence to move a whole lot anyway.
He had also gotten in trouble before for feeding them. Again not a big deal, regardless of what they try to say they have six dogs and they are all muts, but if someone asks you not to do something, and it's their animal, you should listen and stop feeding them cheetos and . So the combination of this, and that, and not being totally sure just how bad it was, he did get into some trouble for it.
This kind of drives me ing bananas dude. So their pissed that your 5 year old is ing with the dogs. But , you can be just as pissed that their dogs are always provoking your son. It's a two way ing street. If you really want to nip this in the bud, Privacy fence that side of your yard at least. Then they cant claim . Not to mention they cant "tape" either. Assholes, I could get all kinds of devious on this type of thing. But ultimately you want peace at the home front.
Rob
To be fair your kids do look like troublemakers.
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Stupid neighbor bull . That woman is a manipulative . She went over to have words with you herself, because she has removed her husband's balls and keeps them in her pocket for situations just like this. So when you went back to her house, it PISSED her off that your wife has not neutered you yet. Then when her husband got home, she shreiked for an hour about the nerve of you coming over, knowing that he was not home and how threatening it was to her. Her wimp husband, knows that you are not nearly as scary as this raging psycho but exists in survival mode and will do anything, ANYTHING to shut her up, which he accomplishes by asking to borrow his, er her balls, and then going over to your house to straighten things out.
Ashholes! I live next to them too.
I did consider putting up a privacy fence, but at the end of the day I'm not trying to piss anyone off even though it seems she's trying her best to piss me off. I considered calling animal control on them because there is a limit of five dogs, and they have at least six. I also considered calling the police and telling them my neighbor is taping my son, I know it's not illegal because he's in public, but I figured I could say I don't know why she's doing it and that I'm concerned for my sons safety. Finally the fence, it would limit their visibility in my direction and I'd imagine they wouldn't be happy about it, so in the end I wouldn't do any of those things because I'm not trying to start with people.
I'd think you were the neighbor on the other side if I didn't know them too.
Nothing to see here. If she threatens you again I'd call the cops and possibly file a restraining order for harassment.
I just skimmed but did I read that some other kid was dangling your 5 year old out in the street? You let your kid play outside unattended? Like I said I just skimmed but it didn't sound too good.
No that's the almost twelve year old.
touche
Nah, this is the troublemaker in question:
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Hey do those neighbors have kids? Or are they the ones who hate kids, but bought a house in the middle of a block where every house has kids and the priority of everyone is to raise normal, happy kids?
They do have kids. That's at least part of what puzzles me, you'd think they would understand that children aren't born knowing everything they should and shouldn't do, or knowing the consequences of doing something wrong, and you can't teach them everything at birth, so often times you have to teach them after they've done something wrong, and sometimes, especially at that age, you have to tell them more than once.
They have an eighteen year old daughter, and a nine or ten year old son.
I think you handled yourself pretty well. I don't respond well to threats and it seems to me that she was using some kind of so called "proof" as leverage to get underneath your skin. Either you show the tape because you're a neighbor with concerns or you simply serve as a notice of whats going on in a non-threatening manor. She choose neither. I would have verbally assaulted her in a way that her husband would have surely been offended.
Then it would be game on.
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