You can wallow in self pity all you want but its a fact that the refs had an impact on the game. Their impact was ultimately superficial, inflating what would have been a win, and the Spurs failed to overcome the bad calls, but the game was poorly officiated. The Spurs have been the beneficiaries of officiating as well -- including some games against the Mavs in Round 1.
I think most people agree that teams must figure out a way to overcome poor officiating, but I don't think it should be ignored simply because you want to dog on the team. The refs sucked. Its okay to say that -- it doesn't mean the Spurs didn't suck too... especially the red head.