Breakups

[Jekka]

What would calling them out accomplish? It wouldn't change anything.

Well if the woman insists on being attracted to assholes it might be a stealthy way to get in her pants

[leemajors]

Well if the woman insists on being attracted to assholes it might be a stealthy way to get in her pants

[SpursWoman]

My marriage AND divorce weren't especially pleasant (details of which might just rival SA210, but I'd rather not share ), and I'm owed enough back-child support to buy a modest-sized house. Does that count?

[jcrod]

I went through my ugly break up a year ago. I lost 19 lbs as a result and have managed to keep it off.

Unfortunately, it wasn't a break up where it could be out of sight out of mind. I have to "deal" with the parties involved from time to time and have to be remindEd of it on a regular basais.

That sucks dude. How is everything else?

[jcrod]

Damn SA210 that is harsh.

[Kobayagi]

I always thought my love life sucks but after reading this thread....damn.


My life is great all of a sudden. I realized I might have dodged a couple of bullets in the past when I knew when to cut it off and, more importantly, how to cut it off.

[SA210]

My marriage AND divorce weren't especially pleasant (details of which might just rival SA210, but I'd rather not share ), and I'm owed enough back-child support to buy a modest-sized house. Does that count?

It sure can get ugly in the end can't it?

[I. Hustle]

What I hate is when people compare regular breakups to a divorce. Yes I know that a breakup can be horrible, sup SA210, but it is no way the same as a divorce. I am not saying anyone here did that, it just annoys me.

[jack sommerset]

SA210 story is awesome on so many levels. In a perfect world I would love to know what his x thinks about the break-up, her side. The thing that makes me laugh and sick is he wiped her diarrhea ass. She had 3 kids and he wiped her dirty ass. That would be a deal breaker for me. No more sex. No more relationship.I would have left RUNNING!

[JoeChalupa]

I'm glad my breakups were just hard on my heart.

[leemajors]

My marriage AND divorce weren't especially pleasant (details of which might just rival SA210, but I'd rather not share ), and I'm owed enough back-child support to buy a modest-sized house. Does that count?

on the other end of the spectrum, i got divorced, make less than my wife, have a good amount over 50% of possession time, yet i have to pay nearly $500 diligently every month. The system is hosed and i'm broke as paying this much a month. Divorce sucks. I wish there was a way to enforce the payment and take each situation into consideration, but i doubt much will change. People like your ex ruin it for everyone.

[tlongII]

on the other end of the spectrum, i got divorced, make less than my wife, have a good amount over 50% of possession time, yet i have to pay nearly $500 diligently every month. The system is hosed and i'm broke as paying this much a month. Divorce sucks. I wish there was a way to enforce the payment and take each situation into consideration, but i doubt much will change. People like your ex ruin it for everyone.

I have a buddy that wasn't working at the time of his divorce. He ended up getting half a house, half a beach house, and alimony. He made out like a bandit!

[SpursWoman]

My boss pays his ex-wife over $1600/month and often more than that ... AND SHE STILL ES!! I told him to give me her number.

[I. Hustle]

My little brother pays alot of child support and she asks for more. He told her that my nephew needs to be in daycare and she said then he needs to give her more money. In the paperwork the money he gives her included enough to cover day care. As it stands she lives with her parents (no rent, utilities, etc.), drops off my nephew with my mom which is cool with her but the ex takes advantage, she has a job because my brother put her through school so she could get it. She doesn't have to pay for anything. My mom buys alot of stuff for my nephew so she doesn't even need to do that but she is still asking for more. ggggrrrrr

[DisgruntledLionFan#54,927]

On the whole, getting married is one of the dumbest financial decisions a man can make.

EDIT: Grammar

[CuckingFunt]

What I hate is when people compare regular breakups to a divorce. Yes I know that a breakup can be horrible, sup SA210, but it is no way the same as a divorce. I am not saying anyone here did that, it just annoys me.

Depends on the nature of the relationship, really. An unmarried couple with kids and merged finances are going to deal with the same hardships as a couple going through divorce.

[I. Hustle]

Depends on the nature of the relationship, really. An unmarried couple with kids and merged finances are going to deal with the same hardships as a couple going through divorce.

touche.

I was talking about people like a friend of mine that broke up with his gf. They shared an apt and had a dog together and he kept calling it a divorce. It was during the time I was going through and actual divorce and it would annoy the crap out of me.

[angel_luv]

Here is the ring.

Pretty. Good work.

I am sure she will love the ring. I know I adore mine.

[I. Hustle]

I've never broken up with anyone.

Met love of my life at young age, still together and in love. "Soul mates" type of thing. Going on 7 years now and we still act happy just to be together, doesn't matter what we do

How's it working out?

[I. Hustle]

These threads make me miss my nigs.
RIP:
B2B
Orion
Gaytrain

[I. Hustle]

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[Stringer_Bell]

What was your worst and how do you do it?

When I was single and “in the mix” I was horrible at breakups. If it was less than say 6 months I would just cut off all contact. The only thing that sucked was most of them knew my hangouts. When I was in highschool it sucked because I would see them everyday.
It hit me in the face though because when I got married (the first time) she decided that she wanted to go out all the time without me and staying with “friends”. First thing I thought was yeah she is cheating. Well I was right but not in the way I thought. She was hooking up with chicks. Sounds hot huh? Nope! She left me for a chick. At first she was still the same person as far as looks and now the went full blown bull . To see her now you would not recognize her. For some reason when they do that they age horribly. I guess it helps with the whole trying to look like a guy thing. I don't think anything could top that.

Never underestimate the power of eating pussy. It's integral to a stable relationship or FWB.

[texas_gator]

Never underestimate the power of eating pussy. It's integral to a stable relationship or FWB.

[The Reckoning]

damn that SA210 story was ed up. if youre still posting here, whatever happened with that? are you still acquiring currency?

about breakups, it feels strange when you and a girl split, but you can't think of any reason to hate her. ive dated girls were they did some seriously ed up things to me, but ive also dated some where i cant "get over them" because they never really did anything terrible. those are the hardest ones to get over, in my opinion.


the last time i saw one of my exes before we split, she punched me in the face as she was slamming my front door. i found out later she broke 3 knuckles and i was without a scratch. she was a brawny , too.

[Venti Quattro]

broke me up through SMS. If you're going to do it, at least have the cojones to break up in person. But thinking about that breakup, it was a blessing in disguise because that girl is a terrible person and she's been miserable ever since she did that to me.