10 Common Body Language Traps for Women in the workplace

[leemajors]

Control of the womans body language is crucial to controlling her workplace. Walk like a man, talk like a man, work like a man, dress like a man, and then you shouldn't have any problems. Whether women like it or not, the workplace IS a mans world. They should act accordingly as to not distract the men from their jobs. If a woman doesn't like the fact that they can't "be themselves", then they should get back in the kitchen where they belong.

Real life example from me. When I was in the military a new e-4 came into my section. She was a decently attractive woman, and immediately all the guys are fawning over her. I on the other hand went out to do my ing job. Later on in the week, she was observing us working, and distracting most of my crew. I was pretty much left alone to do all the work. Then she has the nerve to come up to me and tell me that I am doing my job wrong when she has never even worked on that airframe before. So naturally I put her in her place very quickly by telling her that instead of flirting and looking for a pickle tickle, how about she get some ing tools and help work. Then she bursts into tears and goes crying to our flight chief. The flight chief tried to get me to apologize to her, but I wouldn't and recieved an LoR. I made a verbal statement that this woman comes in here, is distracting my crew, and tries to tell me that I am not doing my job right when she has been here a grand total of 1 week and hasn't even taken the basic airframe training courses yet. I then inform them that in all my time on duty, I have never once made a mistake on the equipment, aircraft, or weapons.

To have a woman go into a mans world, shaking her s, distracting people and crying when there is work to be done pisses me off. If she would have kept her trap shut, and quit talking, more work would have gotten done and we all could have went home early.

I thought DR toed the line but was being brutally honest, but you took it to another level. You just come off like a whiny little .

[DMC]

Control of the womans body language is crucial to controlling her workplace. Walk like a man, talk like a man, work like a man, dress like a man, and then you shouldn't have any problems. Whether women like it or not, the workplace IS a mans world. They should act accordingly as to not distract the men from their jobs. If a woman doesn't like the fact that they can't "be themselves", then they should get back in the kitchen where they belong.

Real life example from me. When I was in the military a new e-4 came into my section. She was a decently attractive woman, and immediately all the guys are fawning over her. I on the other hand went out to do my ing job. Later on in the week, she was observing us working, and distracting most of my crew. I was pretty much left alone to do all the work. Then she has the nerve to come up to me and tell me that I am doing my job wrong when she has never even worked on that airframe before. So naturally I put her in her place very quickly by telling her that instead of flirting and looking for a pickle tickle, how about she get some ing tools and help work. Then she bursts into tears and goes crying to our flight chief. The flight chief tried to get me to apologize to her, but I wouldn't and recieved an LoR. I made a verbal statement that this woman comes in here, is distracting my crew, and tries to tell me that I am not doing my job right when she has been here a grand total of 1 week and hasn't even taken the basic airframe training courses yet. I then inform them that in all my time on duty, I have never once made a mistake on the equipment, aircraft, or weapons.

To have a woman go into a mans world, shaking her s, distracting people and crying when there is work to be done pisses me off. If she would have kept her trap shut, and quit talking, more work would have gotten done and we all could have went home early.

I was training a woman who was a 6 year surface nuke tech in the Navy. She would stand at parade rest and not touch anything. She carried a little notebook with her and wrote down gauge readings and had no idea what the readings were for at that point. She would question the effectiveness of anything I was doing, what if it ever stopped working, how do I know it wouldn't stop working? I had to tell her I didn't know, I test and that's that. She was so ing up tight you couldn't drive a nail up her ass with a sledge hammer. In the 2 years she was there, she never did anything except set pressures and flows to marked gauge standards. 2 years is about how long it takes to get someone fired. It was even harder for her because she was attractive and a few guys made the mistake of asking her out.

Just saying that not all iness is because they are female. Some of it is just lack of confidence. Some women (many it seems) feel they are expected to fail from the start, so they go to extra lengths to avoid it. That causes a bigger issue.

To be perfectly honest, in all my years I have never worked with a female who was more than barely competent. They are not wired how men are, and that's not their fault. They do make some really good maids and housewives though.

[DMC]

Call me when the shuttle lands.

Do you work on the shuttle or do you even have a job? Get a job then critique others, wing slinger.

[xellos88330]

I thought DR toed the line but was being brutally honest, but you took it to another level. You just come off like a whiny little .

Aren't you whining about the way my post reads?

Well if that isn't the pot calling the kettle black.

[leemajors]

Aren't you whining about the way my post reads?

Well if that isn't the pot calling the kettle black.

lol throwing a tantrum at work because a pwetty girl dis cted your crew

[Ginobilly]

Control of the womans body language is crucial to controlling her workplace. Walk like a man, talk like a man, work like a man, dress like a man, and then you shouldn't have any problems. Whether women like it or not, the workplace IS a mans world. They should act accordingly as to not distract the men from their jobs. If a woman doesn't like the fact that they can't "be themselves", then they should get back in the kitchen where they belong.

Real life example from me. When I was in the military a new e-4 came into my section. She was a decently attractive woman, and immediately all the guys are fawning over her. I on the other hand went out to do my ing job. Later on in the week, she was observing us working, and distracting most of my crew. I was pretty much left alone to do all the work. Then she has the nerve to come up to me and tell me that I am doing my job wrong when she has never even worked on that airframe before. So naturally I put her in her place very quickly by telling her that instead of flirting and looking for a pickle tickle, how about she get some ing tools and help work. Then she bursts into tears and goes crying to our flight chief. The flight chief tried to get me to apologize to her, but I wouldn't and recieved an LoR. I made a verbal statement that this woman comes in here, is distracting my crew, and tries to tell me that I am not doing my job right when she has been here a grand total of 1 week and hasn't even taken the basic airframe training courses yet. I then inform them that in all my time on duty, I have never once made a mistake on the equipment, aircraft, or weapons.

To have a woman go into a mans world, shaking her s, distracting people and crying when there is work to be done pisses me off. If she would have kept her trap shut, and quit talking, more work would have gotten done and we all could have went home early.

I know exactly what you mean. When I was 18-21 I used to work Flowers foods in the shipping department. My section took care of all the orders going to the prisons, South Texas markets, and international orders going to the Mexican markets. The environment is very fast pace and you have to hustle so you don't fall behind and cluster- the line-production. I used to hate it when my bosses would hire women because they were severely just too limited for a job like this. All they could ever do is just scan the merchandize with the laser gun and mark it off on the order sheet. Did they load them up on trailer and do other heavy lifting that came with the job? to the no. And I didn't except them too either because some of the stacks of bread and tortillas could weigh up to 300lbs and 8 feet tall, and then you have to load them by hand with a heavy ass dolly. I know it wasn't their fault, but the majority of women don't belong in certain environments that are male dominated. I blamed my superiors because I know that the reason they hired them is because they wanted to talk to them. Yeah, some of them were eye candy, but when you hire 18-25 year old women in male dominated environment, it's going to cause problems.

[xellos88330]

lol throwing a tantrum at work because a pwetty girl dis cted your crew

When you are handling military grade explosives that weigh as much as a pickup truck, wouldn't you be a little bit concerned that your crew isn't completely focused on the job?

Tantrum? You call my 1 sentence said to her a tantrum? Go cut yourself some more emo boy.

[symple19]

Control of the womans body language is crucial to controlling her workplace. Walk like a man, talk like a man, work like a man, dress like a man, and then you shouldn't have any problems. Whether women like it or not, the workplace IS a mans world. They should act accordingly as to not distract the men from their jobs. If a woman doesn't like the fact that they can't "be themselves", then they should get back in the kitchen where they belong.

Real life example from me. When I was in the military a new e-4 came into my section. She was a decently attractive woman, and immediately all the guys are fawning over her. I on the other hand went out to do my ing job. Later on in the week, she was observing us working, and distracting most of my crew. I was pretty much left alone to do all the work. Then she has the nerve to come up to me and tell me that I am doing my job wrong when she has never even worked on that airframe before. So naturally I put her in her place very quickly by telling her that instead of flirting and looking for a pickle tickle, how about she get some ing tools and help work. Then she bursts into tears and goes crying to our flight chief. The flight chief tried to get me to apologize to her, but I wouldn't and recieved an LoR. I made a verbal statement that this woman comes in here, is distracting my crew, and tries to tell me that I am not doing my job right when she has been here a grand total of 1 week and hasn't even taken the basic airframe training courses yet. I then inform them that in all my time on duty, I have never once made a mistake on the equipment, aircraft, or weapons.

To have a woman go into a mans world, shaking her s, distracting people and crying when there is work to be done pisses me off. If she would have kept her trap shut, and quit talking, more work would have gotten done and we all could have went home early.

Aren't you whining about the way my post reads?

Well if that isn't the pot calling the kettle black.

When you are handling military grade explosives that weigh as much as a pickup truck, wouldn't you be a little bit concerned that your crew isn't completely focused on the job?

Tantrum? You call my 1 sentence said to her a tantrum? Go cut yourself some more emo boy.

[symple19]

[symple19]

whiny little .

lol throwing a tantrum at work because a pwetty girl dis cted your crew

[symple19]

[symple19]

[DeadlyDynasty]

symple is ruthless

[symple19]

[symple19]

[symple19]

good day

[gospursgojas]

And all this body language is going on in the kitchen?

[ferg]

Real life example from me. When I was in the military a new e-4 came into my section. She was a decently attractive woman, and immediately all the guys are fawning over her. I on the other hand went out to do my ing job. Later on in the week, she was observing us working, and distracting most of my crew. I was pretty much left alone to do all the work. Then she has the nerve to come up to me and tell me that I am doing my job wrong when she has never even worked on that airframe before. So naturally I put her in her place very quickly by telling her that instead of flirting and looking for a pickle tickle, how about she get some ing tools and help work. Then she bursts into tears and goes crying to our flight chief. The flight chief tried to get me to apologize to her, but I wouldn't and recieved an LoR. I made a verbal statement that this woman comes in here, is distracting my crew, and tries to tell me that I am not doing my job right when she has been here a grand total of 1 week and hasn't even taken the basic airframe training courses yet. I then inform them that in all my time on duty, I have never once made a mistake on the equipment, aircraft, or weapons.

To have a woman go into a mans world, shaking her s, distracting people and crying when there is work to be done pisses me off. If she would have kept her trap shut, and quit talking, more work would have gotten done and we all could have went home early.

This is part of the reason im glad im no longer in the Air Force, specifically my former AFSC of Security Forces. I dont know how many times I had been approached by a female Airman with "this bag is too heavy can you lift it for me?" to which I would normally follow up with "women wanted to be equal, my bag is just as heavy as yours is, lift that yourself". Normally their jaws hit the floor as if I was out of line by saying that and sometimes they caught an at ude with me then I would inform them they could switch career fields or get out and that pretty much stopped them dead in the tracks.

Point is, women wanted equality and when they are treated as an equal to a man they . Not all women, some embrace it but those that dont ruin it for everybody else.

[xellos88330]

good day

It isn't purple hair dye by the way. It is red. Oh yea... why the would you save my picture to post so much anyways? Kinda creepy.

[leemajors]

[symple19]

It isn't purple hair dye by the way. It is red. Oh yea... why the would you save my picture to post so much anyways? Kinda creepy.

it's on your profile, dip .

[ALVAREZ6]

it's on your profile, dip .

[symple19]

It isn't purple hair dye by the way. It is red.

lol getting asshurt about the color of your tips

I'm sure your mom knows some good topical creams that can alleviate your pain

[xellos88330]

it's on your profile, dip .

I know, still the obsession with my picture is pretty creepy.

[xellos88330]

lol getting asshurt about the color of your tips

I'm sure your mom knows some good topical creams that can alleviate your pain

She probably does. She isn't colorblind.