does anybody else give their spouse a curfew?

[Blake]

He sure knew his football however.

he sure fooled us then

[desflood]

Umm... no. My spouse is an adult. Curfews are for teenagers.

[JudynTX]

Yeah, my man can go out without me., he just has to let me know where he is at all times.

He has to be home by midnight.

He can't withdraw money from the ATM without my permission.

He can only drink on the weekends.


















Yeah right....I'm in loving and trusting relationship.

[Trill Clinton]

good to see everybody on ST in healthy relationships.

[cantthinkofanything]

good to see everybody on ST in healthy relationships.

WTF you expect??!??!

[Avante]

I wouldn't want a woman who I had to be su ious about. I have never put any barriers or limitations on her. She does whatever she wants and so do I. Yes if one of us plans on spending some big $$$$ we'll talk about it but other than that we both do our things without restrictions. 30 years and our biggest fight is why I can't remember to put the top back on the toothpaste. Yep, about as happy as two people can be. Which happens when two people are as concerned over the others happiness as much as they are theirs.

When selffish kids marry of course it won't work.

[cantthinkofanything]

[QUOTE=Avante;5954379 Yep, about as happy as two people can be. Which happens when two people are as concerned over the others happiness as much as they are theirs.
[/QUOTE]

And when one of them spends 90% of his time on the internets.

[SpurinDallas]

I actually wish my wife would go out more often, and when she does have dinner and drinks with the girls, she is usually home by 10:30. And like another poster stated earlier, when she is out she is usually texting me about 1 girl out of the group annoying the out of her.

When I go out, it's usually to go out and play poker at an underground game near home, so I go ahead and tell her I'll be home at a certain time so she isn't worried about me. It works out well for the both of us.

[Avante]

And when one of them spends 90% of his time on the internets.

When do you drop the cartoon bit and start dealing with real life? I had RaZon to show everyone how stupid and immature some of you are. As we know there you were with all that stupid/immature...yo mama...as I kept you hooked. Now here you are once again playing idiot I spend a couple hours in the morning and some late at night time doing this. Rarely do it at all on the weekends. As you know I was gone for about a week. Yet here you are ..90%, dude, why not cool this trying to be funny for everyone bit and act like a real person...ok? I have no respect for you at all because you act like a little immature dumbass kid. I have a feeling you aren't really that. Sure you're stupid when it come to track/blues but that's ok.

Yes I know I had my RaZon bit but that wasn't going to last too long. You can't let ...internet moron...go, why?

[cantthinkofanything]

When do you drop the cartoon bit and start dealing with real life? I had RaZon to show everyone how stupid and immature some of you are. As we know there you were with all that stupid/immature...yo mama...as I kept you hooked. Now here you are once again playing idiot I spend a couple hours in the morning and some late at night time doing this. Rarely do it at all on the weekends. As you know I was gone for about a week. Yet here you are ..90%, dude, why not cool this trying to be funny for everyone bit and act like a real person...ok? I have no respect for you at all because you act like a little immature dumbass kid. I have a feeling you aren't really that. Sure you're stupid when it come to track/blues but that's ok.

Yes I know I had my RaZon bit but that wasn't going to last too long. You can't let ...internet moron...go, why?

You are way to serious about everything. Again, there isn't enough difference between your RaZon and Avante trolls. So forgive me if I don't treat them differently.

I was making an on-topic joke, respecting the thread and everything and here you are trying to divert Trill's thread to a personal attack on me.

[JoeChalupa]

No curfews needed. Plain old trust works for us.

[Avante]

You are way to serious about everything. Again, there isn't enough difference between your RaZon and Avante trolls. So forgive me if I don't treat them differently.

I was making an on-topic joke, respecting the thread and everything and here you are trying to divert Trill's thread to a personal attack on me.

Sorry if I don't try to clown everything like you do. I'm not some dumbass kid who thinks everything needs to be a joke, that would be you. As long as you act like a punk or clown I'll treat you like one. When you talk to me get real, drop all that silliness you haul around with you it won't work with me.

All that respect the thread bull was a RaZonism, not mine.

Ok dumbass its almost 9am, time to go. 90% of the time...

[JoeChalupa]

I joke around almost all the time.

[Reck]

RaZon quit it with the long winded responses. Nobody wants to read that much nonsense from you.

[Avante]

RaZon quit it with the long winded responses. Nobody wants to read that much nonsense from you.

So keep it short, funny and simple? Anything with some substance attached to it that isn't funny is a no no.

Do this Shadowwahwah, don't read me...ok? How about you stop giving out advice and whimpering all the time...ok?

Trust me you are not somebody I respect.

[Wild Cobra]

when your significan other decides to go out without you, do you expect them to come home in a reasonable hour? or do you prefer to give them a set time to be home?

Do you allow your spouse to give you a curfew? Does she? Do you follow it?

[Wild Cobra]

The only reason women would want to go out on their own at night is to be s. 'Time with the girls' is just another way of saying shes gonna go out with them and act like a .

LOL...

You obviously know nothing about women.

[Wild Cobra]

I could not possibly give less of a how late my significant other stays out without me. Just so long as he or she keeps in touch so I know they're not dead in a ditch somewhere.

Curfews are for children, though. If I were dating someone who was uncomfortable with me staying out all hours of the night, I would want them to let me know and I would respect their feelings. But I can't imagine I'd take very well to being given a curfew. Unspoken expectations are dumb, too. Passive aggressive bull destined to create drama and resentment.

Absolutely. You either have trust, or you don't.

I am in total agreement with the knowing they are OK. that is not too much to ask at all.

[Avante]

It would have been...

Judy...I'm going out with some friends, don't wait up.
me...make damn sure you are back by 2am.
Judy...ah how sweet, you are worried about me.
me...yes I am, a lot of weirdo's out there.
Judy...I'm a big girl, how about you do wait up for me, ok tiger?
me....

[man on wire]

It would have been...

Judy...I'm going out with some friends, don't wait up.
me...make damn sure you are back by 2am.
Judy...ah how sweet, you are worried about me.
me...yes I am, a lot of weirdo's out there.
Judy...I'm a big girl, how about you do wait up for me, ok tiger?
me....

Your wife fantasizes about Tiger Woods?

[Avante]

Your wife fantasizes about Tiger Woods?

It works like this....

Without a big...T...the word tiger is not a name. With a little...t..it would be a playful word meaning frisky, you know kind of like a tiger.

Anytime I can help.....

[Reck]

So keep it short, funny and simple? Anything with some substance attached to it that isn't funny is a no no.

Do this Shadowwahwah, don't read me...ok? How about you stop giving out advice and whimpering all the time...ok?

Trust me you are not somebody I respect.

Not respecting someone online.

How much of a child are you?

[Trill Clinton]

Do you allow your spouse to give you a curfew? Does she? Do you follow it?

did you read the thread?

[Wild Cobra]

did you read the thread?

Yes. That was my first response from reading the beginning.

[z0sa]

I'm single right now but no, that's ridiculous... I wouldn't ever, either. The only thing near a curfew I ever entertain is a mutual discussion either of us could initiate that goes something like "You know we got a long day/a bunch of bull to do/etc tomorrow so try not to be out too late, babe." Encouraging and focused on our daily lives and future, not some kind of mistrust. And obviously if there isn't to do on a weekend or something and I don't feel like going... have a ing blast, call me if you need to, etc. Of course, at this point of my life I date women who can handle their on their own for the most part so..