If you don't possess leadership by yourself, you don't possess leadership. Kobe is a second fiddle, always has been. His fans just falsely assign qualities to him he's never had.
Actually he's not even a second fiddle. He's a "me first" person. He wants to win for himself, he wants to score for himself, he's never embraced the team concept. He even raped for himself, did not invite the team unlike Gary Neal.
If the team play doesn't uplift Kobe's image, if it doesn't focus on him and him alone, he's simply not interested. He's more interested in being Jordan than Jordan was.