Is it better to marry or be a single guy forever and bang attractive young women?

[Spur|n|Austin]

How old is she?

28

[sook]

new age feminism ensures that women are not content with being with one man. they will steal your soul and blame you for their self-induced depression. don't do it unless you're marrying into wealth.


as much as i personally want a nice girl to settle down with, i'm also aware that 99.99999% of relationships (long or short) have issues that are better off not dealing with especially if you don't want to have kids. who knows...i might be proven wrong, but ultimately women will use you to have and support their kids while they're pursuing their own endeavors. then when the kids are out of the house and you're in your 40s, she'll have a midlife crisis, blame all of her unhappiness on you and kick your ass to the curb.

then you'll think back and wonder where your life went and why you should have invested so much of yourself into one person who ultimately will hate your ass.

Unless you're socially awkward, I've found it impossible for human beings to remain monogamous. I've tried like , but the cons outweigh the pros by a lot. You only get one chance at life, and to spend that time ing only one pussy while simultaneously putting your dreams on the back-burner is my definition of tragedy. I always said my 20's would be mine and I wouldn't marry till my 30s. Now I'm in my 30's and I feel like I'm in my prime...still look and feel great, and am becoming more successful year after year. I'll wait till my 40's and marry a 27-28 y/o nurse (it's my destiny to only date nurses, unfortunately...)

A bit of a cynical outlook, but true nonetheless. I'm ing 22 and I've already started to hear some from my parents, not persistence, just casual drops in a conversation that are enough to tick me off

[Clipper Nation]

Thanks to the feminists, marriage is simply becoming a financial trap for men and more trouble than it's worth, tbh....

[vato loco]

Unless you're socially awkward, I've found it impossible for human beings to remain monogamous. I've tried like , but the cons outweigh the pros by a lot. You only get one chance at life, and to spend that time ing only one pussy while simultaneously putting your dreams on the back-burner is my definition of tragedy. I always said my 20's would be mine and I wouldn't marry till my 30s. Now I'm in my 30's and I feel like I'm in my prime...still look and feel great, and am becoming more successful year after year. I'll wait till my 40's and marry a 27-28 y/o nurse (it's my destiny to only date nurses, unfortunately...)

i agree with the limiting yourself to one pussy thing but not seeing how getting married would put your dreams in the back-burner. you're marrying the wrong if she's making you do that or if you're talking about kids forcing you to do that the is supposed to care for them. you still go out and do your thing to bring the bread home imo. ideally you don't have kids early on though.

for the pussy thing, if you've found the right girl but feel you are too young to limit yourself to just one...why not cheat w/o getting caught? selfish i know but i've done it and think it's absolutely possible to cheat on someone and still love them. it's a necessary evil tbh.

[InRareForm]

Sometimes you can't wait for a yacht.... that yacht will turn into a boat... then soon a paddle boat if you don't start to find someone before it's too late tbh..

[Blake]

Sometimes you can't wait for a yacht.... that yacht will turn into a boat... then soon a paddle boat if you don't start to find someone before it's too late tbh..

paddle boats are less maintenance and easily disposable.

[HarlemHeat37]

I've been on/off with my girl for 7 years now, we got back together in September after being done for 2 years, but we live together now and it seems permanent, tbh..so, based on my experience:

+ it's corny, but it is pretty nice to have somebody that always cares for you, etc..it's cool to have a girl that has similar interests and all that

+ somebody to trust with your money or in case you need help

+ you don't have to constantly try hard/try to impress them

+ my girl is a much better cook than me

+ she cleans , I'm not a cleaner

+ sexually, it's much easier to with your fetishes with a girlfriend IMO(unless you're a sexual predator that doesn't give a )

+ somebody to help me take care of the dog


- The nagging and dealing with y moods..by far the worst part, obviously..I've never cheated on a girl, but after living with somebody and dealing with their bad moods, I now understand why so many guys cheat, tbh..

- Doing you don't want to do..this isn't a big deal since my girl isn't the type of girl to force me into , but I spend a lot of money and effort on special occasions, which is a nuisance

- Only 1 vagina..I'm pretty happy with the amount of pussy I've played with in my prime, so this isn't a huge deal, but obviously there are the moments where you're talking to a girl and realize you won't be ing her

The cons are pretty bad, but if the girl is cool enough that you're wiling to enter the long-term commitment, the pros outweigh it IMO..

The problem will be having kids, obviously..that could change everything for me(I ing hate kids), but fortunately, we don't plan on having kids until our early 30s(6-7 years away for me, 8-9 for her)..

[HarlemHeat37]

Way too many people settle and get married, though, tbh..

I know so many 25+ year olds, especially girls, that get married because they feel obligated to do it at their age, which is ridiculous..they just "like" that or he "brings security" for them instead of actually loving them, which inevitably leads to cheating/divorce..

[N0 LyF3 ScRuB]

I've been on/off with my girl for 7 years now, we got back together in September after being done for 2 years, but we live together now and it seems permanent, tbh..so, based on my experience:

+ it's corny, but it is pretty nice to have somebody that always cares for you, etc..it's cool to have a girl that has similar interests and all that

+ somebody to trust with your money or in case you need help

+ you don't have to constantly try hard/try to impress them

+ my girl is a much better cook than me

+ she cleans , I'm not a cleaner

+ sexually, it's much easier to with your fetishes with a girlfriend IMO(unless you're a sexual predator that doesn't give a )

+ somebody to help me take care of the dog


- The nagging and dealing with y moods..by far the worst part, obviously..I've never cheated on a girl, but after living with somebody and dealing with their bad moods, I now understand why so many guys cheat, tbh..

- Doing you don't want to do..this isn't a big deal since my girl isn't the type of girl to force me into , but I spend a lot of money and effort on special occasions, which is a nuisance

- Only 1 vagina..I'm pretty happy with the amount of pussy I've played with in my prime, so this isn't a huge deal, but obviously there are the moments where you're talking to a girl and realize you won't be ing her

The cons are pretty bad, but if the girl is cool enough that you're wiling to enter the long-term commitment, the pros outweigh it IMO..

The problem will be having kids, obviously..that could change everything for me(I ing hate kids), but fortunately, we don't plan on having kids until our early 30s(6-7 years away for me, 8-9 for her)..

yep pretty much this. It's hard in college though cause pulling girls is re ed easy.. They're all pound meat, tbh..

but you will wanna settle down eventually.. And if you want it to be a dime, sooner > later. Unless you wanna throw down dough for it

[djohn2oo8]

Way too many people settle and get married, though, tbh..

I know so many 25+ year olds, especially girls, that get married because they feel obligated to do it at their age, which is ridiculous..they just "like" that or he "brings security" for them instead of actually loving them, which inevitably leads to cheating/divorce..

I know a few people from High School who got married in/or right out of college. Don't know how they do it either, I would feel suffocated.

[Blake]

+ somebody to trust with your money or in case you need help

oh man, do that with blood relatives.

I can't stress separate money accounts enough, no matter how much you think you trust her.

And she might be trustworthy right now.........but things can change...... Quickly.

everyone here knows I know this.

[The Gemini Method]

blood relatives, too. They be the most likely to scam you. Trust no one with you cash, yo.

[Blake]

but you will wanna settle down eventually.. And if you want it to be a dime, sooner > later. Unless you wanna throw down dough for it

there are some dimes that are settle down worthy, but in my opinion they are few and far between.

dimes are usually dimes for an expensive reason.

[Blake]

blood relatives, too. They be the most likely to scam you. Trust no one with you cash, yo.

Even your parents? damn....

[The Gemini Method]

There is no exact way one should live their life--if you find someone you want to marry, then do so. If you like chasing the punani then do so. Some lifestyles fit better for others and the best thing is that you don't have to affront someone else's choice. Do your thing that makes you ultimately happy and you'll be way better off than trying to fit some niche life and dying in a niche way.

[The Gemini Method]

Even your parents? damn....

Of course not all relatives...but I know parents who have stolen from their children but as for my parents? One has moved on to the other side and the other is living off her retirement. I plan for her expenses and she has my sisters assisting in that matter.

[Blake]

There is no exact way one should live their life--if you find someone you want to marry, then do so. If you like chasing the punani then do so. Some lifestyles fit better for others and the best thing is that you don't have to affront someone else's choice. Do your thing that makes you ultimately happy and you'll be way better off than trying to fit some niche life and dying in a niche way.

Concur.

but at least have a parachute with you.

[Blake]

Of course not all relatives...but I know parents who have stolen from their children but as for my parents? One has moved on to the other side and the other is living off her retirement. I plan for her expenses and she has my sisters assisting in that matter.

oh. I forgot about Kobe's parents stealing from him.

good point...

[The Gemini Method]

Concur.

but at least have a parachute with you.

Yeah, just make sure your parachute opens and it helps you but without you landing on someone else and crushin' them underneath the weight of your life.

oh. I forgot about Kobe's parents stealing from him.

good point...

Yup. Among many other famous and not-so-famous people...Like a friend who inherited some good chip from his Aunt who adored him...only to have his alcoholic father come through and somehow manage to convince the other person with control (his mom) to 'borrow' some coin...well, he drained his own kids' money to blow on trailer park romances and ty Wal-Greens vodka.

[leemajors]

blood relatives, too. They be the most likely to scam you. Trust no one with you cash, yo.

That's what happened to Dane Cook. Not a fan, but his parents died within a few months of each other, then he found out his half brother and sister in law had cleared him out of 12 mill while "managing his business" for him. They'll be repaying that the rest of their lives.

[HarlemHeat37]

oh man, do that with blood relatives.

I can't stress separate money accounts enough, no matter how much you think you trust her.

And she might be trustworthy right now.........but things can change...... Quickly.

everyone here knows I know this.

Ya I was going to elaborate my previous comment, I agree with your points about most females, but I trust my girl, tbh..I've stashed money at her house many times in my teen slanging years, she has lent me money when I was broke in my younger years, etc..

But I understand why s separate their money, even avoiding joint bank accounts..

[GoodOdor]

That's what happened to Dane Cook. Not a fan, but his parents died within a few months of each other, then he found out his half brother and sister in law had cleared him out of 12 mill while "managing his business" for him. They'll be repaying that the rest of their lives.

Damn - you got anymore about this story? did they go to jail?

[DUNCANownsKOBE]

That's what happened to Dane Cook. Not a fan, but his parents died within a few months of each other, then he found out his half brother and sister in law had cleared him out of 12 mill while "managing his business" for him. They'll be repaying that the rest of their lives.

I wish they got away with it since it was Dane Cook.

[leemajors]

Damn - you got anymore about this story? did they go to jail?

http://www.cnn.com/2010/SHOWBIZ/cele...k.res ution/

He was sentenced to six years in prison and 16 years probation, while she got three years in prison and 13 years probation.

[leemajors]

I wish they got away with it since it was Dane Cook.

I'm sure he has a Jewish accountant now tbh, learned the hard way