In less than a month.........

[Franklin]

So... when you're young and strong your wife/gf is just a long term pros ute for you (and not necessarily exclusive for you because she may be cucking you by ing some other dude while being your wife/gf), and when you're old as she's your long term nanny. It may sound cruel and satirical, but it is life tbh.

[apalisoc_9]

congrats..

I personally wouldn't marry in todays age when 50% of Western girls cheat and that's a number way before online dating and flings become rampant. Number is probably significantly higher now.

[lebomb]

So... when you're young and strong your wife/gf is just a long term pros ute for you (and not necessarily exclusive for you because she may be cucking you by ing some other dude while being your wife/gf), and when you're old as she's your long term nanny. It may sound cruel and satirical, but it is life tbh.

If you are truly in love with someone its about WAAAAAY more than sex. You have a relationship, just like Avante said. Yeah, Avante is correct. You need to have good sex with your partner no doubt. But every day life kicks in and you have to have that relationship. Be able to communicate and be there for one another. Yall are one page and are a team. When she is hurting you hurt, when she is happy you are happy. Its like you are two that are one............

[lebomb]

congrats..

I personally wouldn't marry in todays age when 50% of Western girls cheat and that's a number way before online dating and flings become rampant. Number is probably significantly higher now.

Cant meet hoes at the club and expect to marry and have a normal life my niggra. That is certain to fail. You have to meet unexpectedly in a normal environment. HEB, Target, at a sporting event, at the park.....etc. Niggra cant find a wife at the strip club or a dance club at 4am on a saturday after 10 shots of crown.

[Franklin]

If you are truly in love with someone its about WAAAAAY more than sex. You have a relationship, just like Avante said. Yeah, Avante is correct. You need to have good sex with your partner no doubt. But every day life kicks in and you have to have that relationship. Be able to communicate and be there for one another. Yall are one page and are a team. When she is hurting you hurt, when she is happy you are happy. Its like you are two that are one............

I once desired such a feeling too, the feeling you described, but it doesn't exist in the real world it seems like. Even if it does exist, such a sweet feeling would gradually be worn away through time and there'll then be nothing left between you two but the legal bond that marriage is, until you guys mutually call divorce.

[Brazil]

Grats tbh

[lebomb]

I once desired such a feeling too, the feeling you described, but it doesn't exist in the real world it seems like. Even if it does exist, such a sweet feeling would gradually be worn away through time and there'll then be nothing left between you two but the legal bond that marriage is, until you guys mutually call divorce.

I have actually fallen more in love with my fiancee over the past 4+ years. Its getting stronger with time my friend.

[lebomb]

I once desired such a feeling too, the feeling you described, but it doesn't exist in the real world it seems like. Even if it does exist, such a sweet feeling would gradually be worn away through time and there'll then be nothing left between you two but the legal bond that marriage is, until you guys mutually call divorce.

Better with time..........

Grats tbh

Thanks

[Buddy Mignon]

A little advice....

Do everything ya can to help her keep it all up. Do that laundry, do those dishs, make sure she wakes up to a clean house. Keep in mind women are all about those little things, little that doesn't make a dent with us is important to them. Yep, weird little creatures.

You make life easier for her and you will be rewarded so in a way you are setting things up for yourself, trust me on this one....

If she ain't happy you won't be either.

And, don't get lazy with it, she is not your mommy she can dump your ass.

All jokes aside... what's in it for him if he's doing all of that... plus paying the bills.

[FkLA]

Congrats my UTSA .

[DJR210]

...the countdown to divorce begins

[Franklin]

4yr is just too short for you to discover the distresses bro.

[lebomb]

4yr is just too short for you to discover the distresses bro.

Advise coming from a celibate?

Anyhow, if you dont know someone in a years time you will never know them. 365 days together will tell ya all ya need to know.

[lebomb]

All jokes aside... what's in it for him if he's doing all of that... plus paying the bills.

She has a college degree and a great career. We share all the bills.

[Franklin]

Advise coming from a celibate?

Anyhow, if you dont know someone in a years time you will never know them. 365 days together will tell ya all ya need to know.

But people can change drastically imho, and it isn't just physical changes, but also personalities as well. I'm pretty obtuse when it comes to knowing other people so I have no other choice but to live as a celibate for life long. I've fallen in love for some es but they all turned out different than what I thought them to be, tbh.

Maybe four years is long enough for you to know everything you need to know about your significant other, and you have faith in each other, but marriage is not the same as a relationship. The environment is changed after you get married, and there're a lot of things you need to adapt to. For example, a woman wouldn't be happy if she finds her husband posting on a website full of racism & misogyny like the one Spurstalk is, especially when her husband uses the picture of a half-naked hoe as his avatar (assuming that she isn't your fiancee).

[lebomb]

But people can change drastically imho, and it isn't just physical changes, but also personalities as well. I'm pretty obtuse when it comes to knowing other people so I have no other choice but to live as a celibate for life long. I've fallen in love for some es but they all turned out different than what I thought them to be, tbh.

Maybe four years is long enough for you to know everything you need to know about your significant other, and you have faith in each other, but marriage is not the same as a relationship. The environment is changed after you get married, and there're a lot of things you need to adapt to. For example, a woman wouldn't be happy if she finds her husband posting on a website full of racism & misogyny like the one Spurstalk is, especially when her husband uses the picture of a half-naked hoe as his avatar (assuming that she isn't your fiancee).

Technically we are married in the eyes of Texas. We have lived together for 3 yrs. Also, she has actually gotten better along the way. She used to drink and party alot more. Now she is chill and wants to spend mo time wit lebomb.

As far as posting on a fugged up racist, sex crazed pedo/cuck message board with avatars of near nekkid hoes? She could give two fukks. Long as I hit it well, its all good.

[TenBuckTammy]

Won't be long.

[Liar]

I wish you all the best!!

[Buddy Mignon]

Won't be long.

I like the name...

[Cupid]

Another tough nut to crack but he came around. But I have my doubts.....

[RandomGuy]

Congrats.

Just don't show your new wife your avatar. Unless that is her... hubba hubba...

[RandomGuy]

I have actually fallen more in love with my fiancee over the past 4+ years. Its getting stronger with time my friend.

I feel the same way about my wife. More in love with time.

Good luck, and hope it stays that way. Hard to start over after a certain point.